• BDSM,  Sadie's world

    Camp NaNoWriMo and Masochism

    I’ve been crazy-busy in the writing cave this week. Working hard at getting One Gold Knot ready for release. In addition, I’m participating in Camp NaNoWriMo and have committed to completing 30,000 words of Dominant Cord, Book 3 – title as yet to be determined. I’m off to healthy start with my word count currently sitting at 5386 after 2 days, but that’s still a fair way from my goal. July was supposed to be nothing but writing and a some low-key preparation for our upcoming trip home. Somehow, we’ve added dinner guests and a trip to Germany to the calendar. No rest of the wicked, I suppose. It’s odd…

  • BDSM

    The Spice Rack – BDSM Checklist

    I was thinking about erotic fiction the other day, particularly that which involves BDSM, and wondered how many people read it and would like to experiment, but remain ‘in the closet’ for fear of being judged by their partners. Of course, communication is crucial, but it has to start somewhere. How many people in vanilla-type relationships, who can’t even ask their partner for oral sex, are likely to sit at the supper table and casually say they want to be tied up and spanked while wearing nipple clamps and a butt-plug? How many would indulge in kinkier pursuits if they were sure their partner was on board without having to…

  • BDSM,  classical metal,  Sadie's world

    Medical BDSM may not be my kink

    I knew an endoscopy was going to be unpleasant but this was so far off the scale, I couldn’t even pretend it was some kind of BDSM medical scene where I’m wearing an O-ring gag while the very hot doctor feeds a very long cock down my throat. Why is it the doctors are always hot when they are going to see you in your most unattractive and unflattering moments? I’m feeling a fair bit better today after being coddled by Math-geek yesterday. My throat is still very sore, but at least my stomach feels like it can handle more than tea and soup. Now that I’ve finished a beta-read…

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    A stroll through Amstedam

    We were in Amsterdam a few weeks ago, and I thought I’d share a few photographs from our visit. We had a good wander around the ‘Red-light District’ where we found a shop dedicated to the condom.         We went in to look around and whilst we were there, a group of boys aged between about 14-17 were at the counter making purchases. As they were looking to make their getaway from the rather crowded shop, the sales person handed each of them a measuring tape and a pamphlet, directing them to the Condomerie’s website where they can order made-to-measure condoms.         [kad_youtube url=”http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AnEOMRpvs-M”…